Speed Dating Etiquette Guide
Everything you need to know to make the most of your speed dating experience, from preparation to follow-up.
Event Guide
Attending a speed dating event for the first time? Here's everything you need to know about how these events typically work, what to expect, and how to prepare for a successful experience.
Before the Event
Register in advance to secure your spot
Research the venue location and parking options
Prepare a few conversation starters
Choose an outfit that makes you feel confident
During the Event
Check in with the event host upon arrival
Listen to the host's instructions about how the rounds work
Move promptly when the bell rings to end each round
Mark your matches on the provided card or app
Typical Venues
Upscale bars with private or semi-private areas
Restaurants with event spaces
Hotel lounges or conference rooms
Coworking spaces after hours
Typical Format
Check-in and mingling period (15-30 minutes)
Introduction and rules explanation by host
Dating rounds (3-8 minutes each)
Brief breaks between rounds (30 seconds - 1 minute)
Post-event mingling (optional, 30+ minutes)
Tips for Success
Preparation
- Research the event's age range and target demographic
- Prepare 3-5 interesting conversation starters
- Arrive 15 minutes early to settle nerves
- Bring cash for drinks or cover charges if required
- Consider your goals: are you looking for romance, friendship, or just practice socializing?
During the Event
- Focus on making a genuine connection rather than impressing
- Ask open-ended questions that can't be answered with yes/no
- Be present and engaged with each person you meet
- Take brief mental notes about people you connect with
- Have fun and don't put too much pressure on yourself
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